Spring Break
How to Flirt, part one
Jillian JamruszkaIssue date: 8/27/09 Section: Sex
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Guys are simple creatures: you just have to know how to handle them. Generally, they prefer for things to be simple, i.e no games.
When approaching a guy, be direct but not too aggressive; show your interest but don't take that dominant male role from them. It's their human nature to hunt with the goal to ultimately conquer. So you need to let them feel like you're something they want to get by being charming and sweet, but not too available. Don't be easy and hook up with them right away, and don't be clingy. Play it cool and he will call. If he doesn't, then move on.
If you see a guy that grabs your interest, give him a smile from across the room and continue to notice him throughout the night. If he doesn't eventually approach you, he might not be interested, but if you're really determined, talk to him - simply say something like "Hi, you look familiar." This is a very open statement that will allow him to either flirt with you or show that he's not interested without making you feel stupid.
Guys don't like to be intimidated. If you're going out to meet them, wear something feminine and solid. Bold and bright patterns, as inconsequential as it sounds, can turn guys off. Show skin, but in unusual ways - like on your neck, shoulders, décolletage and back. Any girl can push up her boobs, but guys want to be with sexy girls. They'll hook up with the slutty ones, but that's about it.
When you talk, don't get too in-his-face. Definitely give him solid sexy eye contact once in a while, but otherwise guys feel most comfortable talking when sitting side by side in a laid back fashion, like they would with their buddies.
Next week: How to get a girl's attention.
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